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(02-27-2017, 02:33 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote: Hey PDQers. Anything interesting happen in the last couple of months? I had to step away for a bit, so I've missed all of the new and interesting events. 

I had to drop off the site for a bit because I decided, against my better judgement, so show the site to my husband Kyle. Predictably, he became very angry that I was sharing things about our family and sex life on an internet forum. To mollify him, I dropped off for a while. However, in the last couple of weeks, I've started to become a bit more aggressive about being the one in charge in our relationship. I mean, I always have been, but I think I'd been slipping for a bit. Anyway, a couple of nights ago we had a discussion regarding things, including my participation here, and I "convinced" him that he needed just go along with it, to accept my lead and not make such a fuss. This "discussion" may have occurred with him tied down to my bed with a fairly thick 12" of silicone sliding into his cute little tight butt, but I find that sort of persuasion tends to be successful. But now we understand each other and I'm looking forward to seeing you all again. 

Sara

That would be a bit of shock for a spouse, but really you didn't say or do anything wrong that I am aware of.  Perhaps you should've showed him the site before you joined or posted on it.  Relax Kyle, almost everybody here envy's you here, at least I do.    Did you tell Kyle that in only three weeks you became the MOM (member of the month), very impressive.   Kyle, people here love the lifestyle you and Sara have, no reason to fret, this is a place to de-stress, chill-out and celebrate life, really.  It really is that simple.
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#12
(02-27-2017, 02:33 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote: Hey PDQers. Anything interesting happen in the last couple of months? I had to step away for a bit, so I've missed all of the new and interesting events. 

I had to drop off the site for a bit because I decided, against my better judgement, so show the site to my husband Kyle. Predictably, he became very angry that I was sharing things about our family and sex life on an internet forum. To mollify him, I dropped off for a while. However, in the last couple of weeks, I've started to become a bit more aggressive about being the one in charge in our relationship. I mean, I always have been, but I think I'd been slipping for a bit. Anyway, a couple of nights ago we had a discussion regarding things, including my participation here, and I "convinced" him that he needed just go along with it, to accept my lead and not make such a fuss. This "discussion" may have occurred with him tied down to my bed with a fairly thick 12" of silicone sliding into his cute little tight butt, but I find that sort of persuasion tends to be successful. But now we understand each other and I'm looking forward to seeing you all again. 

Sara

Welcome back Sara, you make a radical feminist proud. Take charge girl and remind him "who wears the pants" and in charge. From time to time, we all need to take breaks and I sure you and Kyle had a lovely discussion. Would love to hear more about what you said and his reaction.

RF
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#13
Good to see you back and Kyle put in his place
Dont forget we're still waiting for details of "the Weekend"
Longing to serve women
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#14
Sara, have you told Kyle how important he is to all of us? 
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(03-02-2017, 03:45 AM)Sissy Renee Wrote: Sara, have you told Kyle how important he is to all of us? 

Ha! That would probably freak him out more than he already is, lol.

(02-28-2017, 03:50 AM)RadicalFeminist Wrote:
(02-27-2017, 02:33 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote: Hey PDQers. Anything interesting happen in the last couple of months? I had to step away for a bit, so I've missed all of the new and interesting events. 

I had to drop off the site for a bit because I decided, against my better judgement, so show the site to my husband Kyle. Predictably, he became very angry that I was sharing things about our family and sex life on an internet forum. To mollify him, I dropped off for a while. However, in the last couple of weeks, I've started to become a bit more aggressive about being the one in charge in our relationship. I mean, I always have been, but I think I'd been slipping for a bit. Anyway, a couple of nights ago we had a discussion regarding things, including my participation here, and I "convinced" him that he needed just go along with it, to accept my lead and not make such a fuss. This "discussion" may have occurred with him tied down to my bed with a fairly thick 12" of silicone sliding into his cute little tight butt, but I find that sort of persuasion tends to be successful. But now we understand each other and I'm looking forward to seeing you all again. 

Sara

Welcome back Sara, you make a radical feminist proud. Take charge girl and remind him "who wears the pants" and in charge. From time to time, we all need to take breaks and I sure you and Kyle had a lovely discussion. Would love to hear more about what you said and his reaction.

RF

Glad to make you proud RF. Actually, I think you would have been. I did take charge pretty effectively. I've definitely been more dominant lately. As for the "conversation", it was largely wordless other than me telling him that he was being silly and I wasn't taking it any more. But the non-verbal cues were quite effective. While Kyle certainly loves his role as bottom in our relationship, there are always tweaks I can make that can shift the delicate balance of pleasure and pain when I fuck him. It changes the experience from intimate submission to something closer to domination and punishment. I have a particularly large toy that I keep for just such purposes. I don't use it often, but when I do, it sends a fairly clear message Wink

(03-01-2017, 07:11 AM)sissy maid mary Wrote: Dont forget we're still waiting for details of "the Weekend"

Oh yeah! Wow. That was a while ago. But I definitely will soon. It was pretty amazing actually.
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#16
Hi Sara: Sharing your thoughts with like-minded people here actually strengthens your relationship, as you get support and ideas. Sorry to hear that your husband doesn't see it that way.

He has nothing to fear. After all, if any of his friends learn about his lifestyle - well, then they were here reading about it. And explaining why they were here in the first place could prove rather difficult.

My wife had two good (female) friends who knew about our lifestyle. One, a co-worker, was indifferent. The other, a local small business owner, was very intrigued (and always gave me a smirk when we saw each other).

Perhaps 15 years ago, there was a website maintained by a woman who introduced her husband to chastity and began to feminize him. Part of her work involved arranging an experience where her husband showered (in chastity) with the husband of one of her close friends, thus revealing their lifestyle. They had a serious and fruitful discussion as an icebreaker, and all was good between them. Unfortunately the couple moved to Europe and the website disappeared.

One thing you might want to consider is giving your husband a punishment book. My wife did this, it was a simple school notebook that she handed me when we had some disagreement or when I did something inappropriate. Sometimes I had to write an essay (such as five pages on why I must not stare at other women's stilettos) or simply some lines (like 1000X "I must not look at erotica without permission").

Perhaps your husband could write a lengthy essay on how important it is to trust your judgment and why he shouldn't be embarrassed by others knowing how much he appreciates your leadership role in your relationship. Forcing him to assess his feelings and talk them through with you could help him with any misgivings he may hold deep inside.

I love the way you hold discussions! My wife didn't have a footlong silicone spokeswoman, but she did have a three-foot-long, 3/8" diameter cane that very effectively got her opinions across.

Perhaps you will find Governess Quinn
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?vi...2104564961
worth viewing.

You are wonderful, incredible, and amazing. Keep up the good work!
(03-02-2017, 05:24 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote:
(03-02-2017, 03:45 AM)Sissy Renee Wrote: Sara, have you told Kyle how important he is to all of us? 

Ha! That would probably freak him out more than he already is, lol.

(02-28-2017, 03:50 AM)RadicalFeminist Wrote:
(02-27-2017, 02:33 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote: Hey PDQers. Anything interesting happen in the last couple of months? I had to step away for a bit, so I've missed all of the new and interesting events. 

I had to drop off the site for a bit because I decided, against my better judgement, so show the site to my husband Kyle. Predictably, he became very angry that I was sharing things about our family and sex life on an internet forum. To mollify him, I dropped off for a while. However, in the last couple of weeks, I've started to become a bit more aggressive about being the one in charge in our relationship. I mean, I always have been, but I think I'd been slipping for a bit. Anyway, a couple of nights ago we had a discussion regarding things, including my participation here, and I "convinced" him that he needed just go along with it, to accept my lead and not make such a fuss. This "discussion" may have occurred with him tied down to my bed with a fairly thick 12" of silicone sliding into his cute little tight butt, but I find that sort of persuasion tends to be successful. But now we understand each other and I'm looking forward to seeing you all again. 

Sara

Welcome back Sara, you make a radical feminist proud. Take charge girl and remind him "who wears the pants" and in charge. From time to time, we all need to take breaks and I sure you and Kyle had a lovely discussion. Would love to hear more about what you said and his reaction.

RF

Glad to make you proud RF. Actually, I think you would have been. I did take charge pretty effectively. I've definitely been more dominant lately. As for the "conversation", it was largely wordless other than me telling him that he was being silly and I wasn't taking it any more. But the non-verbal cues were quite effective. While Kyle certainly loves his role as bottom in our relationship, there are always tweaks I can make that can shift the delicate balance of pleasure and pain when I fuck him. It changes the experience from intimate submission to something closer to domination and punishment. I have a particularly large toy that I keep for just such purposes. I don't use it often, but when I do, it sends a fairly clear message Wink

(03-01-2017, 07:11 AM)sissy maid mary Wrote: Dont forget we're still waiting for details of "the Weekend"

Oh yeah! Wow. That was a while ago. But I definitely will soon. It was pretty amazing actually.
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#17
Sara, if need be, a whole host of us would be happy to remind Kyle how lucky he is to have you in charge, including in bed with him on the bottom.  The thought is delightful, and Kyle should appreciate the role he has on the receiving end of your toys and instruction.

In curls
Kimmi
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#18
(02-27-2017, 02:33 PM)Sara In Charge Wrote: Hey PDQers. Anything interesting happen in the last couple of months? I had to step away for a bit, so I've missed all of the new and interesting events. 

I had to drop off the site for a bit because I decided, against my better judgement, so show the site to my husband Kyle. Predictably, he became very angry that I was sharing things about our family and sex life on an internet forum. To mollify him, I dropped off for a while. However, in the last couple of weeks, I've started to become a bit more aggressive about being the one in charge in our relationship. I mean, I always have been, but I think I'd been slipping for a bit. Anyway, a couple of nights ago we had a discussion regarding things, including my participation here, and I "convinced" him that he needed just go along with it, to accept my lead and not make such a fuss. This "discussion" may have occurred with him tied down to my bed with a fairly thick 12" of silicone sliding into his cute little tight butt, but I find that sort of persuasion tends to be successful. But now we understand each other and I'm looking forward to seeing you all again. 

Sara

LOL, you certainly know how to be persuasive!  Undoubtedly, he learned a very important lesson about who wears the proverbial "pants in the family."
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#19
Welcome back Sara!
I love your posts and I totally envy Kyle.
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