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New to putting sissy in chastity
#1
I have finally succumbed to the intrigue and awesome power of putting my sissy in chastity.  While i have had full control of him I resisted this aspect of control  mostly out of fear that the power might go to my head...  I have found that I was right it is a very heady feeling to lock his pretty princess up and wear that key on my neck..  The saving grace for him is that i find it very sexy  and have been prone to letting him out to play!  He has gone only 4 complete days in a row so far.  I have no intention of long term chastity but who knows.  I do know that there is an increased level of submission and overall subjugation to my will when he is wearing..  He does not even realize it but i can sense it..  i am thinking will mostly use for short term absences like if i go out for a girls night.......  or a girls weekend........  or if he is meeting up with some buddies or workmates...........  IF we ever get back to that life...  He is not liking it at all..  i was very pleased when after a bit of a disagreement he presented himself already under lock and key and said he was sorry and realized he was wrong.....  I LOVED it..  Not sure where this will go but it is a fun new option to explore....
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#2
There are plenty have trodden this path before and it is a subject raised regularly so do let us know how things progress as I am sure there will be a great deal of interest. If this his first experience of chastity then by all accounts four days is already a notable achievement and something to be built on.
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#3
Sissies will whine and have a fit over chastity but eventually will put their energy toward more productive things. You can use it as a very motivational tool to control them for sure.
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#4
(02-12-2021, 11:04 PM)SissysWife Wrote: I have finally succumbed to the intrigue and awesome power of putting my sissy in chastity.  While i have had full control of him I resisted this aspect of control  mostly out of fear that the power might go to my head...  I have found that I was right it is a very heady feeling to lock his pretty princess up and wear that key on my neck..  The saving grace for him is that i find it very sexy  and have been prone to letting him out to play!  He has gone only 4 complete days in a row so far.  I have no intention of long term chastity but who knows.  I do know that there is an increased level of submission and overall subjugation to my will when he is wearing..  He does not even realize it but i can sense it..  i am thinking will mostly use for short term absences like if i go out for a girls night.......  or a girls weekend........  or if he is meeting up with some buddies or workmates...........  IF we ever get back to that life...  He is not liking it at all..  i was very pleased when after a bit of a disagreement he presented himself already under lock and key and said he was sorry and realized he was wrong.....  I LOVED it..  Not sure where this will go but it is a fun new option to explore....

Chastity can become addictive. In time (few months) it becomes a part of him and eventually he'll feel lost without it.

*curtsy*
The more submissive he is, the more he will do for you....Train him well!!

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#5
My experiment with using a chastity cage turned out to be a game changer. My husband was already submissive enough but I didn't like the idea that there is something in his life I can't control. I don't know what that says about me. Now he is in chastity he admitted he used to "accidentally" ejaculate on occasion when we were using the honour method. I pressed him for details and he stated that he would get so horny that a slight touch might set him off. I wasn't sure so a few days later I pressed him again and he admitted that he would edge himself and then sometimes it would happen "by accident".
I told him there is no way he can be trusted to save it for when I'm around so the cage will stay on.
My initial strictness has dampened a bit and now I let him have his release about once a week. Either he does it in front of me or whilst licking my feet. If I'm not too tired I will use the strapon while he does it.
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#6
(06-11-2021, 11:34 AM)Elsie Wrote: My experiment with using a chastity cage turned out to be a game changer. My husband was already submissive enough but I didn't like the idea that there is something in his life I can't control. I don't know what that says about me. Now he is in chastity he admitted he used to "accidentally" ejaculate on occasion when we were using the honour method. I pressed him for details and he stated that he would get so horny that a slight touch might set him off. I wasn't sure so a few days later I pressed him again and he admitted that he would edge himself and then sometimes it would happen "by accident".
I told him there is no way he can be trusted to save it for when I'm around so the cage will stay on.
My initial strictness has dampened a bit and now I let him have his release about once a week. Either he does it in front of me or whilst licking my feet. If I'm not too tired I will use the strapon while he does it.

Has he adjusted nicely to the strap on?  Maybe train him to "make sissy" just from the strap on alone.....  If he fails to accomplish that i guess he is not quite ready yet?
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(06-11-2021, 12:37 PM)SissysWife Wrote:
(06-11-2021, 11:34 AM)Elsie Wrote: My experiment with using a chastity cage turned out to be a game changer. My husband was already submissive enough but I didn't like the idea that there is something in his life I can't control. I don't know what that says about me. Now he is in chastity he admitted he used to "accidentally" ejaculate on occasion when we were using the honour method. I pressed him for details and he stated that he would get so horny that a slight touch might set him off. I wasn't sure so a few days later I pressed him again and he admitted that he would edge himself and then sometimes it would happen "by accident".
I told him there is no way he can be trusted to save it for when I'm around so the cage will stay on.
My initial strictness has dampened a bit and now I let him have his release about once a week. Either he does it in front of me or whilst licking my feet. If I'm not too tired I will use the strapon while he does it.

Has he adjusted nicely to the strap on?  Maybe train him to "make sissy" just from the strap on alone.....  If he fails to accomplish that i guess he is not quite ready yet?

No he doesn't like it, he can't get hard with it in his back entrance. 
He says that the fact it's plastic makes it seem pointless suckingit and more humiliating. I asked him if he would rather me get a man in, he shook his head no and looked horrified  Tongue
I wouldn't share him but there is no benefit in telling him that  Wink
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#8
(06-11-2021, 02:45 PM)Elsie Wrote:
(06-11-2021, 12:37 PM)SissysWife Wrote:
(06-11-2021, 11:34 AM)Elsie Wrote: My experiment with using a chastity cage turned out to be a game changer. My husband was already submissive enough but I didn't like the idea that there is something in his life I can't control. I don't know what that says about me. Now he is in chastity he admitted he used to "accidentally" ejaculate on occasion when we were using the honour method. I pressed him for details and he stated that he would get so horny that a slight touch might set him off. I wasn't sure so a few days later I pressed him again and he admitted that he would edge himself and then sometimes it would happen "by accident".
I told him there is no way he can be trusted to save it for when I'm around so the cage will stay on.
My initial strictness has dampened a bit and now I let him have his release about once a week. Either he does it in front of me or whilst licking my feet. If I'm not too tired I will use the strapon while he does it.

Has he adjusted nicely to the strap on?  Maybe train him to "make sissy" just from the strap on alone.....  If he fails to accomplish that i guess he is not quite ready yet?

No he doesn't like it, he can't get hard with it in his back entrance. 
He says that the fact it's plastic makes it seem pointless suckingit and more humiliating. I asked him if he would rather me get a man in, he shook his head no and looked horrified  Tongue
I wouldn't share him but there is no benefit in telling him that  Wink

Perhaps he would be more accepting to a cyber skin dildo.  Wink  https://melroseurbanfemale.com/easy-ride...dildo.html
The more submissive he is, the more he will do for you....Train him well!!

 [Image: Dominatrix.gif]
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#9
Dear SissysWife
Congratulations on locking up your sissy. My only advice would be to gradually extend the locked time to two weeks.
I would say that Sissy will do anything for release by that time especially with frequent teases along the way.
A ruined orgasm at this time would turn her little mind inside out as she realises it could be another two weeks or more before the next time opportunity.
Thats been my limited experience but do whatever works for you.
Longing to serve women
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#10
Dear Sissyswife,
my Wife/Mistress is a very strong proponent of long term chastity, i have been locked up since we have been together.  That definitely has made me extremely submissive.  To not have any control of my orgasms nor being able to touch my clitty for 20 years, is really intense.  my releases now exclusively by sissygasm are very rare, though if i accidentally release while with a man Mistress hasn't punished me for 4 years, since She feels it means i have completely adapted to being a feminized sissy.
Early on, being locked in chastity (the shortest time ever was 1 month) made me understand my submissive/subservient role to my dominant Mistress.  It was very effective in Her gaining total control over me within a few months.  i would not have our relationship any different. i love, adore, worship, obey and serve my Mistress and am completely content doing so!
Submissively,
SissyDana
SissyDana very happily owned by Mistress Melissa
for over 20 years
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