You make a very valid point - there is no question that a great deal of our behaviour revolves around the evolutionary need to survive - as whilst we feel that we are now elevated from the rest of the animal kingdom in that respect, in evolutionary terms this is still a very recent event - for most of human history we were Hunter gatherers.Â
The fact that we are essentially removed from the animal kingdom means that we do need to alter the way that we approach things, not only because the old methods are now unnecessary but because through such means as climate change and war, they have shown themselves to be detrimental to human interest going forward.Â
All this said, there is strong evidence that newer generations of males are taking a different of view of things and rather than trying to be dominant or superior do want to be prissy and feminine (and peaceful) as evidenced by the many members of this forum. The main obstacle at the minute is the pressure exerted by the elders who were born before such a change in our society to maintain the status quo, so there is good reason to expect that over the course of the coming decades as these elders get fewer and fewer, that society will become more and more the way that humanity needs it to be.Â
Far better that instead of being interesting in dominance through aggression or riches, that males become more concerned with working towards the very stark problems that humanity really needs to be aware of and to gain a stranglehold of.Â
And what could be less harmful than a society in which a man’s main concern is whether the pink stilettos he bought last week match his new dress?Â

 It will give us chance to try and reverse the damage already done if nothing else.