Spanking

[markpants]

I have been reading a lot of peoples spanking experiences . Male and female . It seems that more than a few developed their love and sexual gratification for a spanking during their years of puberty . Many describing how the clenching and wincing caused them to orgasm . One other thing i did find out is that after an orgasm the spanking hurt a lot more .

Started earlier for many of us, many years before puberty, leaving an imprint that would stay for ever.  The pain, the loss of control, the humiliation...formative.  Helped develop a deep appreciation for strong Females and the desire to submit to them.  Only later, as puberty developed, did it develop a sexualised, fetishistic aspect.  But nowadays, for me, a spanking - and other forms of physical discipline or punishment - isn't necessarily a sexualised act.  Could describe it as something like pyschic 'healing' or 'focus'.

I agree entirely.

[Michaela]

My only childhood spanking came from a babysitter when I was about 8. It was over her lap. She caught me eavesdropping while she was on the phone with her girlfriend talking about boys. I squirmed and cried during the spanking. She called me a little sissy for crying. The scene has been repeated as an adult but with me actually dressed as a sissy girl.