12-14-2020, 09:39 AM
(12-04-2020, 07:09 PM)sissysoft Wrote:(12-04-2020, 10:44 AM)Bill Wrote: I have been reading a lot of peoples spanking experiences . Male and female . It seems that more than a few developed their love and sexual gratification for a spanking during their years of puberty . Many describing how the clenching and wincing caused them to orgasm . One other thing i did find out is that after an orgasm the spanking hurt a lot more .
Started earlier for many of us, many years before puberty, leaving an imprint that would stay for ever. The pain, the loss of control, the humiliation...formative. Helped develop a deep appreciation for strong Females and the desire to submit to them.  Only later, as puberty developed, did it develop a sexualised, fetishistic aspect. But nowadays, for me, a spanking - and other forms of physical discipline or punishment - isn't necessarily a sexualised act. Could describe it as something like pyschic 'healing' or 'focus'.
I agree entirely.