(09-23-2020, 05:31 AM)Bill Wrote: There has been a big swing over to girls liking to be babied as well . It used to be male orientated as boys were petticoated in the past or felt that being babied destressed their normal lives . Now with all the social pressures from things like social media. Girls have adopted it in a far bigger way and not only use it for emotional reasons but for sexual ones as well .Kissing a girl and liking it is now the norm for a lot of young girls and they have no problem taking it into their own brand of infantilism . If you notice . Mostly all ABDL is mommy baby girl .
Not sure that it's mostly "mommy baby girl" (mommy dom/little girl - mdlg?) Seems rare to find that on the usual blogs. Haven't done quantifiable research but seems most ABDL girls are in daddy-dom-little-girl relationships. In fact, saw one video of an ABDL girl in a lesbian relationship who called her partner daddy.Â
Would appreciate direction to mdlg blogs you frequent since such relationships are intriguing. Of course, you do have the advantage of the personal experience of your sitter that appears to support your contention but that's a small sample. In addition, it appears she acts as a sitter for her own pleasure as well as her charges' enjoyment so her clientele is structured according to her choices. This writer envies you.
Nevertheless, that there appear to be more ABDL females than males on the blogs could be due, as others have noted, to the majority of both males and females preferring to see a cute female in diapers rather than a hairy infantile male (can't believe how many males think hairy is cute). I would expect the males to be looking for cute rather than simian. Could also explain why real females appear in sissy/crossdressing blogs. People into this lifestyle want to see cute and believe they are cute. It's what the real world sissy/adult baby aspires to.  An unattractive sissy or adult baby could put a chill on the fantasy.  Of course, there is always a market for everything in the fetish world.Â
None of this rambling, however, addresses male vs female ABDLs in the real world. There has been research (can't remember where) linking infantilism with crossdressing (using that term generically). Theoretically a female can't be a crossdresser since it's accepted as open season for females in all manner of clothing. This would argue in favor of a wider spectrum of males with the potential to be involved or interested in the ABDL lifestyle (just another form of crossdressing). Likewise, a female's freedom to dress as she pleases, even in an infantile style (e.g., Lolita fashion), could explain why more females than males are more likely to be out in "public". Finally, in any ABDL related blog, reviews in online ABDL shops, or wherever comments are posted it seems the majority of commenters are male.Â
Merely this writer's views and not meant to offend.  Resting the  pen.