why are we this way?

[Llanes]

Hi Michaela,
Thank you for sharing! I had a very similar upbringing and experience. I also had girls that were attracted to me calling me cute and sweet. I believe they liked me because I always was a good listener and tried to give good advice. I would always share with the girls what the guys were saying when girls weren’t around- like their mole. But I would also be easily manipulated which sometimes got me into trouble always being the messenger. While I thought some of the girls I was friends with were attractive, I never would indicate it and even would blush at the sight of an exposed bra strap. It was the role I took on.