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My husband - Elsie - 04-16-2021

Well a few people expressed an interest in how I achieved an flr with my husband. 
We were at university when we met and he was alot nicer than my previous boyfriends in that he seemed to genuinely care about me and want to do things for me. After uni I got a job in a different area of the country and he came with me. He was unemployed but soon got a job. Then I got pregnant. I had to take maternity leave and once that was over it was a constant struggle to manage being a mum and work and housework. It was around this time that he confided he was submissive to women. My first thoughts were 1. Well you aren't submissive to me and I'm the only woman as far as your concerned 2. Who have I married? 
I took to the internet and yes it was a thing, a big thing apparently. I was unsure but the bit that caught my attention was the part where apparently I can take this outside the bedroom. I'd had all this imagery in my head of Whips and chains and of course my husband had always liked being on the bottom but I had no idea I could get him to serve like a maid! 
I still wasn't convinced but as a young tired working mum I started to try to be strict with the housework. He argued some of the time but id remind him he said he was submissive and he would visibly shrink and relent. 
I got more and more confident, we tried chastity it kept slipping off so I told him he could just not masturbate. We have cameras in every room anyway so it's not easy to do this without me knowing. 
Slowly he took on more work and eventually he found a part time job so he could be a full time house husband and father. 
When my daughter started going through a difficult phase I introduced the naughty step, she had to sit on the bottom of the stairs for the her age in minutes. At the time it was 3 minutes. I started my husband on the same. 
Around the same time I started making him wear feminine underwear. At home he wore only feminine underwear and When he went out he put his clothes on over them. No male underwear in the house. 
When my second child was born I didn't change a single diaper, didn't do a single night feed, id express milk for him to give at night. 
He gets the same allowance as the children get. We have a joint account but he doesn't have access to it, both his and my wages are my money. 
Well I think that covers it. There is alot more to it but thats the basics.


RE: My husband - Sissy Celeste - 04-16-2021

Thank you Elsie. That's a great summary of how you started on your FLR. I hope you both find it a very fulfilling relationship.

You mention that the chastity device you used kept slipping off. We had several attempts to find one that fitted comfortably but securely whilst moving around, with very limited success, which was frustrating, (but not in the way chastity devices are meant to be!) We recently found this make https://www.naughtybuttnice.co.uk/shop/bondage/chastity-devices/mancage-03-clear-chastity-cage/
and it has been a revelation, as the choice of rings and method of fitting provides a completely secure device that is now only ever taken off for cleaning. (There are three different sizes too.)

Total chastity has brought a new dimension to my submission and subservience, and I would encourage you to try again. And I'm sure we would all like to hear more about your FLR and how you keep your maid in her rightful position in the household.


RE: My husband - Elsie - 04-16-2021

(04-16-2021, 04:02 PM)Sissy Celeste Wrote: Thank you Elsie. That's a great summary of how you started on your FLR.  I hope you both find it a very fulfilling relationship.

You mention that the chastity device you used kept slipping off. We had several attempts to find one that fitted comfortably but securely whilst moving around, with very limited success, which was frustrating, (but not in the way chastity devices are meant to be!)  We recently found this make https://www.naughtybuttnice.co.uk/shop/bondage/chastity-devices/mancage-03-clear-chastity-cage/
and it has been a revelation, as the choice of rings and method of fitting provides a completely secure device that is now only ever taken off for cleaning. (There are three different sizes too.)

Total chastity has brought a new dimension to my submission and subservience, and I would encourage you to try again.  And I'm sure we would all like to hear more about your FLR and how you keep your maid in her rightful position in the household.
Thank you for the recommendation, however a cage for my husband would need to be a quarter of the size of that  Wink


RE: My husband - Girlygirl - 04-16-2021

It sounds as though you have got him well trained there, Elsie - the image of a grown man sat on the naughty step is quite an amusing one.  Big Grin


RE: My husband - Elsie - 04-16-2021

(04-16-2021, 04:50 PM)Elsie Wrote:
(04-16-2021, 04:02 PM)Sissy Celeste Wrote: Thank you Elsie. That's a great summary of how you started on your FLR.  I hope you both find it a very fulfilling relationship.

You mention that the chastity device you used kept slipping off. We had several attempts to find one that fitted comfortably but securely whilst moving around, with very limited success, which was frustrating, (but not in the way chastity devices are meant to be!)  We recently found this make https://www.naughtybuttnice.co.uk/shop/bondage/chastity-devices/mancage-03-clear-chastity-cage/
and it has been a revelation, as the choice of rings and method of fitting provides a completely secure device that is now only ever taken off for cleaning. (There are three different sizes too.)

Total chastity has brought a new dimension to my submission and subservience, and I would encourage you to try again.  And I'm sure we would all like to hear more about your FLR and how you keep your maid in her rightful position in the household.
Thank you for the recommendation, however a cage for my husband would need to be a quarter of the size of that  Wink

I just realised you mentioned three different sizes. I need to look closer and see if there is a place I can view the smallest size. Assuming the 4.5 inch isn't the smallest Smile

(04-16-2021, 05:46 PM)Girlygirl Wrote: It sounds as though you have got him well trained there, Elsie - the image of a grown man sat on the naughty step is quite an amusing one.  Big Grin

It was amusing at first. Now it's just normal Smile I do use other punishments aswell but this is still the first port of call for a simple correction.


RE: My husband - Ms spank his bottom - 04-17-2021

(04-16-2021, 01:07 PM)Elsie Wrote: Well a few people expressed an interest in how I achieved an flr with my husband. 
We were at university when we met and he was alot nicer than my previous boyfriends in that he seemed to genuinely care about me and want to do things for me. After uni I got a job in a different area of the country and he came with me. He was unemployed but soon got a job. Then I got pregnant. I had to take maternity leave and once that was over it was a constant struggle to manage being a mum and work and housework. It was around this time that he confided he was submissive to women. My first thoughts were 1. Well you aren't submissive to me and I'm the only woman as far as your concerned 2. Who have I married? 
I took to the internet and yes it was a thing, a big thing apparently. I was unsure but the bit that caught my attention was the part where apparently I can take this outside the bedroom. I'd had all this imagery in my head of Whips and chains and of course my husband had always liked being on the bottom but I had no idea I could get him to serve like a maid! 
I still wasn't convinced but as a young tired working mum I started to try to be strict with the housework. He argued some of the time but id remind him he said he was submissive and he would visibly shrink and relent. 
I got more and more confident, we tried chastity it kept slipping off so I told him he could just not masturbate. We have cameras in every room anyway so it's not easy to do this without me knowing. 
Slowly he took on more work and eventually he found a part time job so he could be a full time house husband and father. 
When my daughter started going through a difficult phase I introduced the naughty step, she had to sit on the bottom of the stairs for the her age in minutes. At the time it was 3 minutes. I started my husband on the same. 
Around the same time I started making him wear feminine underwear. At home he wore only feminine underwear and When he went out he put his clothes on over them. No male underwear in the house. 
When my second child was born I didn't change a single diaper, didn't do a single night feed, id express milk for him to give at night. 
He gets the same allowance as the children get. We have a joint account but he doesn't have access to it, both his and my wages are my money. 
Well I think that covers it. There is alot more to it but thats the basics.

Well congratulations become head of household.My sissy is in panties 24/7. You might consider your husband being clean shaven .My husband gets a brazilian wax job once a month,he is free of body hair other than what's on his head. I also like the idea that your husband is doing the housework  and you are strict. My sissy does All the housework and I have different outfits for him to wear. I also believe in spanking my husband ,every Sunday my sissy goes across my knee for Maintenance hand spankings. I also give him Punishment SPANKINGS with my paddles and other implements I use. I go to his place of work on Friday and he puts his paycheck in my hand and then we go to the bank and it goes in my account. Sissy does get a small allowance. I treat him like a juvenile sissy and that's what he deserves. We should compare Punishment techniques and maybe we can learn more to keep our husbands in line. Do you use corner time, spanking, Punishment lines? What other Punishments do you use to keep your husband in his place.


RE: My husband - Cindy - 04-17-2021

Thank you for posting such an interesting account. It sounds to me like your husband is a very lucky man to have you.


RE: My husband - whyguys - 04-17-2021

(04-16-2021, 01:07 PM)Elsie Wrote: Well a few people expressed an interest in how I achieved an flr with my husband. 
We were at university when we met and he was alot nicer than my previous boyfriends in that he seemed to genuinely care about me and want to do things for me. After uni I got a job in a different area of the country and he came with me. He was unemployed but soon got a job. Then I got pregnant. I had to take maternity leave and once that was over it was a constant struggle to manage being a mum and work and housework. It was around this time that he confided he was submissive to women. My first thoughts were 1. Well you aren't submissive to me and I'm the only woman as far as your concerned 2. Who have I married? 
I took to the internet and yes it was a thing, a big thing apparently. I was unsure but the bit that caught my attention was the part where apparently I can take this outside the bedroom. I'd had all this imagery in my head of Whips and chains and of course my husband had always liked being on the bottom but I had no idea I could get him to serve like a maid! 
I still wasn't convinced but as a young tired working mum I started to try to be strict with the housework. He argued some of the time but id remind him he said he was submissive and he would visibly shrink and relent. 
I got more and more confident, we tried chastity it kept slipping off so I told him he could just not masturbate. We have cameras in every room anyway so it's not easy to do this without me knowing. 
Slowly he took on more work and eventually he found a part time job so he could be a full time house husband and father. 
When my daughter started going through a difficult phase I introduced the naughty step, she had to sit on the bottom of the stairs for the her age in minutes. At the time it was 3 minutes. I started my husband on the same. 
Around the same time I started making him wear feminine underwear. At home he wore only feminine underwear and When he went out he put his clothes on over them. No male underwear in the house. 
When my second child was born I didn't change a single diaper, didn't do a single night feed, id express milk for him to give at night. 
He gets the same allowance as the children get. We have a joint account but he doesn't have access to it, both his and my wages are my money. 
Well I think that covers it. There is alot more to it but thats the basics.

Wonderful exhortation on YOUR assuming primacy! Have YOU ever before let other WOMEN know of YOUR FEMALE FIRST RELATIONSHIP?  How much further , if any , might YOU intend extending YOUR power and/or YOUR husband's sissification?   Are YOUR children aware of such FEMALE FIRST philosophy?


RE: My husband - sgbf - 04-17-2021

(04-16-2021, 08:29 PM)Elsie Wrote:
(04-16-2021, 04:50 PM)Elsie Wrote:
(04-16-2021, 04:02 PM)Sissy Celeste Wrote: ...

Total chastity has brought a new dimension to my submission and subservience, and I would encourage you to try again.  And I'm sure we would all like to hear more about your FLR and how you keep your maid in her rightful position in the household.
Thank you for the recommendation, however a cage for my husband would need to be a quarter of the size of that  Wink

I just realised you mentioned three different sizes. I need to look closer and see if there is a place I can view the smallest size. Assuming the 4.5 inch isn't the smallest Smile

You might find that the Holy Trainer nub is small enough. I like that when I am totally deflated, it still press against the urination hole, so less messy.


RE: My husband - touchdown - 04-17-2021

(04-16-2021, 01:07 PM)Elsie Wrote: Well a few people expressed an interest in how I achieved an flr with my husband. 
We were at university when we met and he was alot nicer than my previous boyfriends in that he seemed to genuinely care about me and want to do things for me. After uni I got a job in a different area of the country and he came with me. He was unemployed but soon got a job. Then I got pregnant. I had to take maternity leave and once that was over it was a constant struggle to manage being a mum and work and housework. It was around this time that he confided he was submissive to women. My first thoughts were 1. Well you aren't submissive to me and I'm the only woman as far as your concerned 2. Who have I married? 
I took to the internet and yes it was a thing, a big thing apparently. I was unsure but the bit that caught my attention was the part where apparently I can take this outside the bedroom. I'd had all this imagery in my head of Whips and chains and of course my husband had always liked being on the bottom but I had no idea I could get him to serve like a maid! 
I still wasn't convinced but as a young tired working mum I started to try to be strict with the housework. He argued some of the time but id remind him he said he was submissive and he would visibly shrink and relent. 
I got more and more confident, we tried chastity it kept slipping off so I told him he could just not masturbate. We have cameras in every room anyway so it's not easy to do this without me knowing. 
Slowly he took on more work and eventually he found a part time job so he could be a full time house husband and father. 
When my daughter started going through a difficult phase I introduced the naughty step, she had to sit on the bottom of the stairs for the her age in minutes. At the time it was 3 minutes. I started my husband on the same. 
Around the same time I started making him wear feminine underwear. At home he wore only feminine underwear and When he went out he put his clothes on over them. No male underwear in the house. 
When my second child was born I didn't change a single diaper, didn't do a single night feed, id express milk for him to give at night. 
He gets the same allowance as the children get. We have a joint account but he doesn't have access to it, both his and my wages are my money. 
Well I think that covers it. There is alot more to it but thats the basics.

is you daughter  old inough to discipline hubby ?   tommie