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Dear Helga, I am sorry for the length of this post but some stories are worth telling. I hope this can help other women in my position. Let me say that my husband(ette) is a sweet man. I think that is the quality that first attracted me to him. We've been married since college (both of us in our late 50's) and have had a wonderful life. We've been blessed with wonderful kids and grandkids. Here's the problem, Dave (now Debbie) has always had a high libido, much greater than mine. When I was younger I was able to "keep up" with his physical needs. However for the last few years my libido has diminished so much that if I never had sexual relations again I wouldn't miss it. It is a chore! Dave would never cheat on me but you know how males are, ruled by hormones! We have a circle of friends where there are widows, divorcees, frustrated wives who are cheating and the occasional daughter who wants an older man. Dave is very handy and is in great demand for repair work and he never charges labor. You can see that I am reluctant to expose him to temptation. Since I can't go with him to his work projects my solution was to get him into panties, thinking that he would never put himself into a position where anyone could find out. He is very fit, not a sports fan but active in athletics with a body most men his age would die for. In fact he's been hit on by some gay men that we know. I'd almost rather see him with a man than another woman, but he's definitely not that way. I digress; it took almost no time at all to get him wearing panties after I coupled it with our sex life. It took me about a month to get him in a bra and now I have him in total femme attire. When he leaves the house he is under dressed and usually wearing femme jeans, pants, tops, sweaters and flats. We have gone out with him totally en femme and have had a wonderful time. When he gets home from work he gets into full dress with his hair done and makeup. He really has taken to be Debbie. Total time was just under a year. Time certainly well spent. After this time I have been letting our sex life go down, I just don't want the bother. So I knew that if I wanted to keep Dave from straying even when he's in dresses I had to think of something. I've heard a lot about the female "G spot" and that there is an equal part in the male, the prostate gland. I did some research and found some prostate massagers that promised a complete orgasm just like a woman's orgasm. I did some more research and found a company and went to their web site and spent some time and through a forum asked some questions. Finally I ordered one of their sets, there was their original massager, a larger model, a vibrating egg that can be attached to both massagers and some lube. It arrived on Saturday and yesterday evening I introduced it to Debbie. We went to the web site and read all the information and Debbie seemed excited to try it, the little minx! I let her go into our bedroom and try it in private; of course I was able to sneak an occasional peek. She was using it for an hour and a half and came out and told me that while there was no earth shattering "progasm" as they call it, there were several episodes of intense pleasure and total body "quivering". Based on what we had read that was normal and later the intense total body "progasm" would occur. There was to be no touching of the genitals since the body had to be retrained as to what was pleasurable and orgasmic. Debbie seemed at ease and in a very good mood. Later just before we usually went to bed Debie said that she'd like to try again and of course I encouraged her. She went in the bed room and after about 10 minutes I heard a low moan. I crept to where I could watch and she was lying on the bed on her side and was just shaking and her left hand was vibrating wildly. After about 5 minutes of this she calmed down and began relaxing and breathing normally. She lay that way for another 10 minutes and she began shaking and quivering again. This time she didn't stop and had a wild orgasm, I had never seen her so intensely in the throes of passion. She moaned and bucked and finally had an explosive total body "progasm" She lay there and it took a full 10 minutes for her to recover. While she was recovering I went and lay next to her and took her in my arms and caressed her all over. She just looked at me and cuddled me. Debbie is a new person after this experience; she said that last night she had dreams about the massager and today at lunch she came home for another session. It wasn't as explosive but very satisfying. Debbbie is like a young person who has had sex for the first time (in some way it is the first time), can't get enough of it! I plan on letting her use it as much as she wants for a couple of weeks until she gets hooked on it (she may already be). After we progress to the bigger model I will take control of it and only let her use whenever I choose. We all know that sissy girls are not to be trusted! I hope this may help others and I also hope I haven't offended any one by such descriptive language. Best Wishes, Jayne Fleming Thank you for your letter Jayne. We take no offense, we're all adults here and fully understand the need to control your husband through dressing and this type of stimulation. We also appreciate your plan to control this type of activity from now on and you're so right, they just can't help themselves. Helga |